3 signs that you have forgotten your self-worth in a relationship

If you see these signs, you should really be bothered, and it may even be time to move on.
3 signs that you have forgotten your self-worth in a relationship [Credit: Odyssey]
3 signs that you have forgotten your self-worth in a relationship [Credit: Odyssey]

You are best-suited to a life with another person when you are not scared to be by yourself. When you have become self-sufficient enough to go through life all by yourself.

That way, your decision to be with someone is a choice in the real sense of the word. You know yourself and love the human being you are, you have relationships that are fruitful and healthy and have a circle of people who want your best interests at heart.

All of this builds your self-worth, your esteem and the way you view yourself and your role and place in whatever relationship you decide to get into.

Once you find yourself dropping standards, getting desperate, it is time to watch yourself [Credit: Shutterstock]
Once you find yourself dropping standards, getting desperate, it is time to watch yourself [Credit: Shutterstock]

The relationships you get into should build you further, increase your self-worth and further solidify your esteem. But if you get into a relationship and somehow begin to doubt yourself, it is not a good sign.

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If you see these signs, you should really be bothered, and it may even be time to move on.

1. You do anything, take everything

A relationship is not a do or die affairs. It makes sense only when you still have your voice and your power of choice. So do all you can to keep those.

Once you find yourself dropping standards, getting desperate, it is time to watch yourself. You should never beg to be loved, to be appreciated; neither should you let anyone make you feel lesser than you are. You are more important than that and there is someone somewhere willing to live their life proving that to you daily.

2. They no longer respect you and you allow it

Never let anyone disrespect you. If you find yourself condoning it, unable to say anything or do anything about it, there is a problem that needs to be addressed.

People with adequate self-worth speak against disrespect when it’s being thrown at them.

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If you get into a relationship and somehow begin to doubt yourself, it is not a good sign. [Credit: Getty]
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If you get into a relationship and somehow begin to doubt yourself, it is not a good sign. [Credit: Getty]

3. You are worried no one else would want you

It is a trick of your mind or one programmed into your mind by your partner. Whichever of these is the issue, it is not right.

Your old relationship may not be right for you, but it is not the end of the world. Someone else would want you for sure.

People with the right things in place and the right self-esteem to boot recognize that their value is intact and that they deserve love. They don’t hesitate to demand it and move on when they are consistently not being treated in the manner they should.

Updated: July 31, 2019 — 4:54 am

63 Comments

  1. Just love yourself and move on when and if you noticed one or all of those signs

  2. Great idea, well done oga writer. but to me every human being have a test, need and what the want, but sometimes those one I want or I need don’t accept me, does sit mean am not good enough to them? or don’t have that self esteem?

  3. True words relationship without trust, love, self confidence, self worth respect is a manageable one that can,t be tolerate.

  4. Thats correct everybody should know when to quit from an unhealthy relationship if not ur self esteem will be gone b4 u know it

  5. Very true.
    Love can make us loose our sense of reasoning.
    Things we do for love.

  6. What ever a person won’t allow in marriage should not accept in a mere relationship.. Because it will b used against them when finally they decide to settle down

  7. I don’t know much about relationship so I won’t say much. If you loose your worth you should leave the relationship

  8. You rather prove it wrong and make it clear in a very condoning tune when you’re humiliated and disrespected than allowing it to bother you.

  9. Thanks for these nice pieces of advice,at least it will help some people know thier self-worth while in a relationship

  10. this is common with ladies of this days and that have to watch out and take note of it not to pull them down.

  11. Well trust is the most important thing in a relationship,love without trust is nothing,but if you both believe in yourselves the relationship will last long.

  12. Yes that’s true cause relationship that there is no trust, understanding, comfort and pure love can’t stand

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